Bounce…

Bounce…

Recently, in a workshop on resilience by Kevin L. Green at ROOTS Week, our small discussion groups were asked to come up with a definition or metaphor for resilience. We kept coming back to the notion of a rubber band that maintains its elasticity, something that...
That Tingle

That Tingle

When I was a little girl, we used to play this game at slumber parties called Light as a Feather, Stiff as a Board. One girl would lay down and pretend to be dead. The rest of us girls would sit around her body, one at the head. Sometimes “the body” would...
Remembering What We Forgot

Remembering What We Forgot

I love this scene at the end of When Harry Met Sally. Harry wonders who the acquaintances are we should remember when we sing Auld Lang Syne. Sally replies that perhaps we should just remember that we forgot them.     Ever since I started my story coaching practice,...
Girls Just Wanna Have Fun (at the YMCA)

Girls Just Wanna Have Fun (at the YMCA)

Picture it. A Wednesday evening, a Saturday morning. A community pool at the local YMCA. The women gather, picking out their foam water-resistance weights, placing them on the side of the pool, and then gingerly entering into the water with squeals and groans. The...